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When will this pain end…

I firstly want to say I’m sorry is this post is moany but I’m feeling so much pain. Every man I love hurts me and I don’t know why. I’m so fed up of having hope in a relationship just to be disappointed and having to grieve a loss all over again. All I want is to be happy, to be held and support a partner. But every failed relationship convinces me that I’m not supposed to be in love, because there is something wrong with me. I know I’m supposed to love myself first but I don’t right now. In fact I despise myself because I just can’t get it right :(

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